Food for the Soul

team day 3It all comes down to cookies. The chocolate wafer kind, mint-flavored with a delicate chocolate coating and sealed in a rectangular green box. The world knows them as Thin Mint Girl Scout cookies. I know them as my nemesis.

When I was in Girl Scouts, I dreaded going door-to-door in the Girl Scout’s famous annual fundraiser. I had to knock on the door of someone I didn’t know, interrupting that stranger to ask him or her to peruse my list of cookies and order some, and then I had to go back a few weeks later, lugging around stacks of cookie boxes that my mother had taped together and labeled in our garage, and then they had to give me money. The act of just knocking took everything I had. Read More…

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Testing 1, 2, 3

Pink Tent Nov 09A pink tent sprouted in my house last weekend. It was no accidental sprouting, though. I planted the thing myself. It was a tent from San Diego’s 2007 Breast Cancer 3-Day walk that I’d procured from my sister* to give my boys a chance to sleep in a tent like the one I’ll be sleeping in for the next two nights as part of the 2009 Breast Cancer 3-Day walk. My triplet boys were giddy with the novelty of camping in the living room.

And being the complete idiot that I am, I fed their hysterical state with sugar in the form of s’mores. Hey, the perils of a sugar-induced human tornado aside, s’mores are an essential part of camping and could not be omitted from this living room camping extravaganza, right? Read More…

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Squooshed

bookdropI couldn’t help but be skinnier now. I have just emerged from three weeks of being buried by a load of projects and activities that brought me eye-level with the ground. Between Halloween, Breast Cancer 3-Day fundraising and training, a flood of freelance editing jobs, preparation for the La Jolla Writers Conference, attending the three-day conference, writing my own fiction projects, and being sick enough to loose eight pounds in a week, I’ve been squooshed flat. Oh yeah, and then there were three four-year-old boys doing that war dance around my battered body.

HOWEVER. I raised all the money I pledged to raise for the Breast Cancer 3-Day walk, I’ve completed the La Jolla Writers Conference, and I’ve gotten well and started eating like a human being again. That just leaves Read More…

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Child’s Play

Pink Lemonade Halvey men La Jolla CoveAs if we didn’t know it, our kids have proven once again that they are amazing. For five of the past seven weekends, various combinations of the triplets belonging to the five moms on my Breast Cancer 3-Day walking team hosted our Pink Lemonade Project lemonade stand  at various locations around San Diego. And I’m not exaggerating when I say that the kids hosted the stands—these kids really did a very large amount of the serving, they took the money and gave change, they explained our mission to their ‘customers’, they handed out flyers, and they advertised by wearing shirts that said “Pink Lemonade Project” and “Triplets Against Cancer” and marching around in packs holding signs that read, “Buy Our Lemonade.” Sure, these kids logged a lot of play time, but it was well-earned. As of Sunday, the grand total of our lemonade stand donations came to $1,372.00. Read More…

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Happy Birthday to Me

Pink Lemonade Project stand #5 at La Jolla CoveAs with my wedding anniversary and the birthdays of every person I know except my three sons, I usually forget my birthday. You’d think that with it being the day after Halloween, I’d remember, but I don’t. Luckily, my friends and family do remember it, and this year three people—my parents and my friend since junior high, Tara—decided that what I’d probably want more than anything else on my birthday was cash . . . for my Breast Cancer 3-Day fundraising. They were right! With their donations plus the money that my husband, our three four-year-olds, and I made at our fifth Pink Lemonade Project lemonade stand today, I’VE REACHED MY GOAL! That’s $2,322 for Susan G. Komen for the Cure, to be used for breast cancer research, education, screening, and treatment. Hurrah!!!!

To celebrate, I ate Milk Chocolate Bordeaux chocolates from See’s Candies this afternoon.

Now that’s what I call a good birthday.

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Reality Check

TentsSuddenly, I am frightened. My older sister, who has walked in the “Breast Cancer 3-Day” 60-mile walk and then worked it as a volunteer, just sent me some advice for the two nights I will spend in a tent—this, after walking 20 miles during each of those days. Now, there are some things she didn’t need to tell me: I can already predict that my body will be hurting from all that walking, and I already know that I’m not a camper at heart, just as I already know that I am a very light sleeper under the best of circumstances. Despite these certainties about myself, I am committed to doing this walk because of everything that it stands for, because of the important uses for the funds that I am raising, and because every now and then I just get a hankerin’ to test my mettle. Knowing these things, I’ve been doing a combination of not thinking about the tents and psyching myself up for a “grand experience that happens to include tents.” Read More…

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BE AMAZING

Be Amazing handsA couple of years ago, when our triplet sons were old enough to be aware of his wedding band, my husband told them, “This is my ‘I Love You Ring’. It means I love Mommy,” and then he pointed to each of the boys in turn, “and I love you, and I love you, and I love you. I will always wear it because I will always love you all.” His explanation stuck. At four-and-a-half years old, the boys still call our wedding bands our I Love You Rings.

Recently, the boys received wristbands from my ‘Breast Cancer 3-Day’ walking team captain Jenna. The wristbands, which Jenna is selling as part of her fundraising efforts, are as spirited as they are colorful, sporting the inspiring slogan “BE AMAZING.”  Read More…

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Urban Trees, Part I

Urban Tree_Popcorn ChickenGot a spare $90,000? Oh, good! For $90,000, you can buy a new tree for your front yard. True to the price tag, it’s a special tree, called an “Urban Tree” and fashioned by man instead of Mother Nature. The boys and I walked through San Diego’s latest grove of Urban Trees last week and left convinced that we had to have Urban Trees of our own.

For each of the past six years, a new batch of Urban Trees has been “planted” along a half-mile stretch of San Diego’s scenic Embarcadero as part of a Port of San Diego public art program, wherein artists apply their creative talents to the design of artistic trees that add color, form, interest, and fun to the waterfront. This year’s grove, installed just weeks after we returned to the U.S. from our year in England, features 30 brand new—and wholly unexpected—trees. Read More…

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6 Days

Lemonade trioIn the past six days, my ‘Breast Cancer 3-Day’ walking team has lost two loved ones to cancer. The latest, Cheryl’s Aunt Sue, succumbed to breast cancer yesterday morning. The last thing Cheryl said to me before hanging up the phone to go make travel plans for the funeral was, “We gotta raise a ton of money to BEAT this thing.” And so…

Announcing the third Pink Lemonade Project lemonade stand: October 10, 2009, 11am to 3pm at Scripps Park in La Jolla Cove, the lovely park just above the Children’s Pool (aka “Seal Beach”). Please stop by and buy a cold one—it’s for a great cause. And if you’re not a San Diegan, you can still have a glass of the sweet stuff at our virtual lemonade stand using my own personal fizzy pink lemonade recipe at www.PinkLemonadeProject.com. Read More…

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Where It Goes

Pink Lemonade Project pola bearToday the boys wore their “Pink Lemonade Project” shirts to the zoo. A lady approached me, with two French-speaking friends in tow. She asked about the boys being triplets, then she asked about their shirts, then she asked what the Pink Lemonade Project was raising money for. When I told her, a strange expression crossed her face. “I’m a smoker,” she said. “My sister just died from breast cancer.” Then she held up a pack of nicotine gum. “I’m trying to quit.” Read More…

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Risk Management

Pink Lemonade Project banner standI bet it would hurt to have one’s hamstring impaled by an 18-foot length of 3/4-inch PVC pipe. Or at least, that’s what I was thinking last week as my three small men marched through Lowe’s home improvement store carrying the materials for my Pink Lemonade Project banner stand. The sweet boys wanted to help in the stand-making so badly that I couldn’t say no when they offered (read: begged to the point of tears) to lug the PVC pipes up to the cash registers. The good thing was, this activity gave them a mission, and a mission always keeps them focused and out of mischief in stores. The bad thing was, this mission could have proven fatal to our fellow Lowe’s shoppers.

It was a risk I chose to take. Read More…

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Did YOU Know Pirates Love Pink Lemonade?

Pink_V with signToday was national ‘Talk Like a Pirate Day.’ I was reminded of that when a 3-foot-tall pirate walked up to our Pink Lemonade Project lemonade stand at Seaport Village and said, “Arrgh! Gimme a tankard of the pink grog, wench. Arrgh!” Then he brandished a vicious plastic sword near my belly button. That pirate had his tankard of pink grog within seconds. I don’t mess with pirates.

Even with the presence of feisty, sword-wielding pirates—or perhaps because of it—my Breast Cancer 3-Day walking team’s very first Pink Lemonade Project stand was so fun and so successful that we’re going to do it one more time—tomorrow, Sunday, September 20, from 10:30 to 3pm, again at Seaport Village. San Diego’s heat wave isn’t done, so Read More…

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Thirsty?

Pink Lemonade Project logo with url_smallYou are? Well then, how about a cup of pink lemonade? San Diego is heading into another heat wave, after all, and there’s no sweeter way to cool off. Best of all, as you down that cold cup of pink sweetness, you will be sticking it to cancer, big time.

I and the four other triplet moms on my “Breast Cancer 3-Day” walking team are launching the Pink Lemonade Project this weekend. Check out this awesome website, www.PinkLemonadeProject.com, and see for yourself. The jist of it is, Read More…

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Mommy, Why Is That Woman Whipping Herself?

SophiaWesternI have a long, nasty red welt on my left hip. I have a matching one on my right. And I’m not sure, but I think I’ve got several on my hind end. The thing is, I inflicted them all myself—while jumping rope. Not that it’s always my fault. Okay, yes, sometimes I do trip up on the rope, snapping it against my lower extremities like a taught rubber band. But four separate times in the last four months my speed ropes have literally snapped in two while I was mid-jump, and the nylon ends whiplashed my thighs. Pwap! Jumpin Jehosophat! Talk about pain.

Yes, I’ve taken up jump roping. And why not? Tripping over a rope you’ve just swung at your own feet is a jolly pastime. Read More…

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Speaking in Bloghand

blog-image.jpgWhen two people have a common background or a shared experience, they can develop a communication shorthand that really makes life easy. Like with married couples who can finish each other’s sentences; that’s the kind of shorthand I mean. Well, I found out yesterday that two friends who are avid bloggers can develop a similar condition that I’ll call ‘bloghand.

My friend, neighbor, and fellow triplet mom Jenna and I both Read More…

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